INSIDE THE CHINESE CLOSET (Sophia Luvara)
The title of this intimate and revealing documentary doesn’t mean exactly what one would think. It’s only very recently that in China one wasn’t put in prison or sent to a psychiatric institution simply for being gay; the film is set in Shanghai, which today by all appearances is a fully, modern cosmopolitan city where gay men and lesbians can live their lives more or less openly without much fear from the authorities. But as is depicted here with humor and poignancy, old traditions, as well as the legacy of China’s one child policy, still has a stranglehold on the lives of young people, and especially LGBT folk.
We alternate between the stories of Andy, a gay man, and Cherry, a lesbian, both Shanghai residents under great pressure from their parents to conform their expectations of marriage and children despite their sexual orientation. The film’s key line comes from another gay man at one gathering of fellow LGBT people: “Our parents go into the closet when we come out.” Andy and Cherry’s experiences seem, on the evidence presented here, similar to that of other young gay people in China; they’re pretty much out to their parents, but their parents pressure their children to marry and have children just like heterosexuals to keep up appearances for the benefit of the parent’s neighbors.
This gives rise to the curious phenomenon of “fake marriage markets,” where gay men and lesbians enter into arrangements where they’re married for public purposes while they live separate intimate lives. The arrangements are sadly and unfortunately necessary in a country that doesn’t have legal same-sex marriage, and that lacks a reliable social welfare system for seniors, so that they mostly depend on their children to care for them in their old age.
Andy and Cherry’s stories vividly illustrate the emotional turmoil caused by their parents’ expectations. Andy’s frequent phone calls to his father reveal that he’s under enormous pressure to find a woman that he can marry and who will bear his child; his father is well aware his son is gay, and that Andy will be marrying a lesbian. But none of his father’s friends and neighbors know that, and his father would like to keep it that way. Even worse, his father has exacting standards for a suitable wife; she must be the right age, have the right education, and so on. Andy tries to remain cheerful, and genuinely wishes to please his father, but the strain of the hoops he must go through is clearly evident.
Cherry is married to a gay man, but the pressure is on from her mother to have a child. Whether she bears one herself (out of the question for Cherry), adopts one, buys one, or steals one, it doesn’t seem to matter, as long as her mother can have a grandchild. Cherry wants to please her parents to, just as Andy does, but she begins to chafe under these pressures, and becomes more and more resentful of her mother’s incessant insistence on her having a child.
Inside the Chinese Closet offers a nuanced and often visually striking depiction of the struggles of LGBT people in China to navigate societal and family expectations while trying to live in a way that allows them to be who they truly are. The songs of love and marriage on the soundtrack form an ironic aural counterpoint to the difficult experiences of the people in the film.
(June 17, 9:30pm, IFC; June 18, 9pm, FSLC)